BECOMING A VALUABLE AND FULFILL MARRIAGE MATERIAL OR PARTNER

Text: Prov20:6; 31:10
Ten Essential Qualities of a valuable and fulfil Marriage Material or Partner
1. Sonship faith (Heb10:38; John1:12; Pro13:6-8)
* You must acknowled your sins, confess, forsake it and accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour
* You must be born again (John 3:3)
* You must pray for the guidance of the spirit of God (Rom8:14)
2. Self Awareness (Prov20:6-7)
* You must understand yourself and be able to pray for your weakness
3. Security and Confidence (Luke14:22-30)
*You must secure confidence and security in the Lord (Isa30:15; Eph3:12)
*People of confidence are in love because of what they can give not because of what they can get
4. Sincerity and Integrity (Prov11:3; 19:1; 20:7)
*The way you handle money, relationship with people
5. Seriousness with Responsibility
*You must be serious and be responsible in the way you communicate with people, handling things and work
6. Strong Commitment (Prov25:19; Luke9:62; Matt19:6)
*They are easily giving to change
*When they see little difficulties they want to back off
7. Special Respect And Honour For Others
(Rom12:10)
*Respect is reciprocal
*You must learn from others
*You dont laugh at others weakness, instead you correct them
*You must work and nurse each other
*Give honour to each other (Eph5:22-23; Pet3:7)
8. Spiritual Maturity (Gen2:24)
*Recognize your own roll
*Marriage is not for novices, you need divine knowledge
~Signs of immaturity
i. Lack of goal setting and planning ahead
ii. Spending all your life without saving
iii. Running to daddy and mummy for little problem
iv. In ability to think through
*Areas of Maturity
Physical
Emotional
Spiritual
Financial
9. Self Discipline (1Cor9:24-27; Gal5:22-23)
Know that the things you are struggle with now if not conquered you will still be struggling with it when married
*The area of eating
*The area of spending
*The area of working
*Time management
*Emotional control
10. Sound Communication
*Marriage is a life long conversation
*Many people go into marriage without knowing how to converse and handling things
*Many people don't know how to shear their own feelings
~How to communicate in an heathy way
*Open to your partner
*Be gentle in your communication
* You must be frank
* Be sincere
* Be ideal in the way you see things and feels
Proper preparation preserve poor performance

EXPRESSING THE POWER OF THE KING

TEXT: Mark1:3-8, 11
Jesus is the king that have all authority
He is the king of Glory (Ps24:7-8
He is the king of all the earth (Ps47:7)
He is the king of power: Every battle of your life today the lord will swallow it up
He is the king of righteousness (Heb7:2-3)
He is the king of peace
He is the king of the saint (Rev15:3)
He is the king of great inheritance (Ps2:6)
I am talking about someone that everything about Him is power
 

1. PREPARATION FOR THE ARRIVAL OF THE KING
Mark1:3; 1Sam7:3; Job11:13-17
Take away every idols from you; the idol of money (gambling), the idol of smoking, the idol of self will, the idol of incense, the idol of candle, and idol of sacrifice. Calvary have settled every incensed and sacrifices.

2. THE PRIVILEGE OF AN ADOPTION BY THE KING
Mark1:16; 10:28-30; Rom8:15
When you come to Christ you are adopted to the family of God
When you are following Jesus you forsake your old life (girlfriend, juju, burning incense, candle work, familiar spirit, evil things, alcohol, gambling, and occultist).

3. THE POWER AND AUTHORITY OF THE KING
Mark1:23-26, 34; 2:10-12; 7:37
There is power that breaks every yokes of (sins, Satan, death, sickness) and restore the glory of God back into one’s life.
To attain the mercy, blessing, power and honour from God is for you to acknowledge, confess, repent, forsake your sins and accept Jesus in your life. I pray as you do so the Lord will forgive and redeemed you from the power of sin, satan, sickness and write your name in the book of life in Jesus name (Amen).

O THAT THEY WERE WISE

Memory Verse: “O that they were wise, that they understood this, that they would consider their latter end!” (Deuteronomy 32:29).

Text: Daniel 12:1-3

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He matter of the end is the end of the matter, God has set time for everything on earth (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8). There is an ultimate end for our life here on earth. Whatever anyone does while alive on earth will take him to live in eternity either with God in heaven or with Satan in hell at one’s latter end. This is why the Bible is encouraging us to consider our latter end.

Question 1: What do you understand by ‘latter end’?

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Both heaven and hell are real. The Bible confirms to us that physical death is not the end; after death comes judgment which leads to heaven or hell (Hebrews 9:27). This answers the question of whether there is life after death. Sure, there is life! It is unending and called eternity. Where do you want to spend your eternity? Ordinarily, everyone wants to go to heaven; unfortunately it is not everyone that is qualified for it.

Question 2: From John 3:3-7, 16-18, what qualifies one for heaven, and what takes one to hell?

a.                 Heaven: ______________________________________________________

b.                 Hell: _________________________________________________________

From Mathew 7:13 and 14, there is the confirmation of the two destinations. People throng to hell – a place of damnation, while just few have found the way to eternal life in heaven. What qualifies the few on that narrow way is their rebirth following their believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and  their acceptance of Him as their all in all. Those on the broad way remain there because of their refusal to believe and accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour. This is dangerous! However, there is opportunity to decamp and join the few on the pathway to heaven. It is important you consider your latter end.

Question 3: How can one prepare for eternity with God?

i.                   Galatians 5:19-21; Acts 3:19 ______________________________________

ii.                 Proverbs 28:13 _________________________________________________

iii.              John 1:12 _____________________________________________________

iv.              John 8:31 _____________________________________________________

For a sinner to make heaven, he must take the required steps to salvation. He must repent and confess all his/her sins (King David did it in Psalm 51; you must do it too). He must also renounce all his acts of sinful practices. To become a child of God who is ready to be with Him in eternity, he must receive Christ into his life and believe on His name. Having become a believer in Christ Jesus, he must continue with Him to the end of his life (John8:31; Matthew 24:13). The opposite of sinful living is righteous living. Sinful living leads to hell fire, but righteous living leads to heaven. Therefore, be wise to consider your latter end.

O THAT THEY WERE WISE

Memory Verse: “O that they were wise, that they understood this, that they would consider their latter end!” (Deuteronomy 32:29).

Text: Daniel 12:1-3

T

He matter of the end is the end of the matter, God has set time for everything on earth (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8). There is an ultimate end for our life here on earth. Whatever anyone does while alive on earth will take him to live in eternity either with God in heaven or with Satan in hell at one’s latter end. This is why the Bible is encouraging us to consider our latter end.

Question 1: What do you understand by ‘latter end’?

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Both heaven and hell are real. The Bible confirms to us that physical death is not the end; after death comes judgment which leads to heaven or hell (Hebrews 9:27). This answers the question of whether there is life after death. Sure, there is life! It is unending and called eternity. Where do you want to spend your eternity? Ordinarily, everyone wants to go to heaven; unfortunately it is not everyone that is qualified for it.

Question 2: From John 3:3-7, 16-18, what qualifies one for heaven, and what takes one to hell?

a.                 Heaven: ______________________________________________________

b.                 Hell: _________________________________________________________

From Mathew 7:13 and 14, there is the confirmation of the two destinations. People throng to hell – a place of damnation, while just few have found the way to eternal life in heaven. What qualifies the few on that narrow way is their rebirth following their believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and  their acceptance of Him as their all in all. Those on the broad way remain there because of their refusal to believe and accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour. This is dangerous! However, there is opportunity to decamp and join the few on the pathway to heaven. It is important you consider your latter end.

Question 3: How can one prepare for eternity with God?

i.                   Galatians 5:19-21; Acts 3:19 ______________________________________

ii.                 Proverbs 28:13 _________________________________________________

iii.              John 1:12 _____________________________________________________

iv.              John 8:31 _____________________________________________________

For a sinner to make heaven, he must take the required steps to salvation. He must repent and confess all his/her sins (King David did it in Psalm 51; you must do it too). He must also renounce all his acts of sinful practices. To become a child of God who is ready to be with Him in eternity, he must receive Christ into his life and believe on His name. Having become a believer in Christ Jesus, he must continue with Him to the end of his life (John8:31; Matthew 24:13). The opposite of sinful living is righteous living. Sinful living leads to hell fire, but righteous living leads to heaven. Therefore, be wise to consider your latter end.

“O THAT THEY WERE WISE”

Memory Verse: “O that they were wise, that they understood this, that they would consider their latter end!” (Deuteronomy 32:29).

Text: Daniel 12:1-3

T

He matter of the end is the end of the matter, God has set time for everything on earth (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8). There is an ultimate end for our life here on earth. Whatever anyone does while alive on earth will take him to live in eternity either with God in heaven or with Satan in hell at one’s latter end. This is why the Bible is encouraging us to consider our latter end.

Question 1: What do you understand by ‘latter end’?

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Both heaven and hell are real. The Bible confirms to us that physical death is not the end; after death comes judgment which leads to heaven or hell (Hebrews 9:27). This answers the question of whether there is life after death. Sure, there is life! It is unending and called eternity. Where do you want to spend your eternity? Ordinarily, everyone wants to go to heaven; unfortunately it is not everyone that is qualified for it.

Question 2: From John 3:3-7, 16-18, what qualifies one for heaven, and what takes one to hell?

a.                 Heaven: ______________________________________________________

b.                 Hell: _________________________________________________________

From Mathew 7:13 and 14, there is the confirmation of the two destinations. People throng to hell – a place of damnation, while just few have found the way to eternal life in heaven. What qualifies the few on that narrow way is their rebirth following their believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and  their acceptance of Him as their all in all. Those on the broad way remain there because of their refusal to believe and accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour. This is dangerous! However, there is opportunity to decamp and join the few on the pathway to heaven. It is important you consider your latter end.

Question 3: How can one prepare for eternity with God?

i.                   Galatians 5:19-21; Acts 3:19 ______________________________________

ii.                 Proverbs 28:13 _________________________________________________

iii.              John 1:12 _____________________________________________________

iv.              John 8:31 _____________________________________________________

For a sinner to make heaven, he must take the required steps to salvation. He must repent and confess all his/her sins (King David did it in Psalm 51; you must do it too). He must also renounce all his acts of sinful practices. To become a child of God who is ready to be with Him in eternity, he must receive Christ into his life and believe on His name. Having become a believer in Christ Jesus, he must continue with Him to the end of his life (John8:31; Matthew 24:13). The opposite of sinful living is righteous living. Sinful living leads to hell fire, but righteous living leads to heaven. Therefore, be wise to consider your latter end.